❤️🩹50% dos Conselhos do Reddit é "Larga Ele"
Um pesquisador analisou 15 anos do subreddit de conselhos amorosos do Reddit: mais de 1 milhão de comentários de qualidade, de 2010 a 2025. Em 2010, 30% dos conselhos recomendavam terminar o relacionamento. Em 2025, esse número está chegando a 50%. --- No mesmo período, 'comunique-se' caiu de 22% para 14%. 'Ceda' caiu de 7% para 3%. A única categoria crescendo quase tão rápido quanto 'termina' é 'procure terapia', que subiu de 1% para 6%. A conclusão foi direta: se você treinar uma IA com esses dados, ela vai recomendar terminar o relacionamento. Não porque a IA é defeituosa - mas porque é exatamente isso que 52 milhões de comentários humanos dizem.
50% of all relationship advice on Reddit is “leave.” 15 years of data, 52 million comments, and the trend line only goes one direction. A researcher filtered r/relationship_advice down to 1,166,592 quality comments and tracked what people actually recommend. In 2010, “End Relationship” sat around 30%. By 2025, it’s approaching 50%. “Communicate” dropped from 22% to 14%. “Compromise” collapsed from 7% to 3%. “Give Space” fell from 25% to 13%. Every category that requires patience lost ground every single year. The one category growing faster than “leave” is “Seek Therapy,” which went from 1% to 6%. The subreddit is slowly learning to say “this is above my pay grade.” Train a model on this dataset and it would absolutely tell people to break up. The training data is 50% “leave” and climbing. The model wouldn’t be broken. It would be accurately reflecting what 52 million commenters actually believe about your relationship. A 50% prior that you should leave, a 14% prior that you should talk about it, and a 6% prior that you need a professional. That’s not LLM psychosis. That’s the median human opinion on your relationship, backed by the largest advice dataset ever assembled.
— @aakashgupta View on X
